If no space is given for
One to be Afraid or to Fail,
then no room is available for
Strength, Courage
and Resilience to grow.
If young Individuals are sheltered from feeling Afraid or not allowed to Fail in endeavours that they pursue, then the skills and abilities to Overcome cannot be developed. So the resilience to persevere against seemingly insurmountable obstacles can never mature and ripen.
This then eventually culminates into feeble and inept adults, which are easily coerced and manipulated because they quickly capitulate in the face of adversity. Or in some instances, they react violently as a way to mask weakness and feign Strength.
In times when it is almost considered a crime for One to feel Afraid, the prevailing attitude is, that the catalyst which triggers the Fear must be destroyed, even if that catalyst itself had little to do with the underlying cause of Fear.
If One is Afraid, allow for the space to be Afraid.
If One has Failed, allow for the space to reflect on the Failure.
The sense of Fear, in and of itself, has never caused anyone any harm, regardless of the Intensity.
However, reactions to Fear have contributed to death and destruction on a monumental scale.
Enough Rope
The opportunity to experience
consequences for choices and actions
should often be given.
Because it is from this,
that real Understanding is gained.
Being constantly sheltered
from any adverse effects,
causes expectations to swell
for perpetual pandering.
.
Provided there is no
immediate physical danger.